Cinema·4 min read·👀 Watched 2022.06.15

My Dress-Up Darling

A light, fun anime — 20 minutes an episode, perfect to watch over a meal. But underneath: no one's passion should ever be labeled.

2022 · Romantic Comedy · Shinichi Fukuda · Netflix

A quick intro

A light, fun anime — an episode is only twenty minutes, perfect to watch over a meal.

Two leads with totally opposite personalities gradually grow close because each has a hobby the public misunderstands. Thanks to the heroine's carefree personality, the stiff male lead often "petrifies," and his inner monologue is hilarious, haha. If you want the occasional laugh, I recommend it 👍👍

Only after looking it up did I learn that anime with lots of racy shots like this is called niku-ban ("fan-service", basically "selling flesh").

Pure fan-service? Or a message?

This anime does have a lot of fan-service — enough to make you a bit shy — but I think it also brings out both leads' commitment to their own interests, and how they actually take action to dig deeper and put it into practice. It's not just fan-service!

Through the heroine Marin, it tells the underconfident male lead Gojo — and the audience — the idea that "you have to say your own thoughts out loud!" But the ending didn't really make me feel the male lead changed much? Maybe it just conveys the concept?

No one's dream should be labeled

Boys = blue, girls = pink? Even in today's advanced society, gender stereotypes are still planted deep in most people's minds. Consciously or unconsciously, we all more or less project "how men and women are supposed to be" onto people — but that's so unfair. Everyone's interests and biological sex were never bound by a fixed formula, so respecting each person's passions is, I'd say, an important lesson of being human. I hope I too can thoroughly root out this deep-seated, scary notion. (;´༎ຶД༎ຶ`)

Anime fans, cosplay = antisocial, lost in the online world? By Toshio Okada's definition, an otaku is a fan devoted to something to the point of mastery. I'm not an anime fan, but I've noticed that even now, with anime culture gone mainstream, some people still think liking anime means having no friends, the never-leave-the-house type — even presuming they wouldn't click with such a person. It's really not true ==. Loving 2D virtual characters and loving 3D K-pop idols are exactly the same thing; there's no "nobler than thou" between them.

The slow-burn romance is maddening

I have to say Gojo is honest to the point of being unrealistic, haha. He's already done so many line-crossing things — how are they still not together?! Articles point out the manga is still only at the stage of Marin constantly doing things to raise Gojo's affection, but with her direct, carefree personality she really should just swing for it 🤣🤣. Then again, maybe it's precisely because she likes him that she's being so careful! 🥰